When I was pregnant with Tacy, her 20-week ultrasound showed a marker for chromosomal abnormality. On the advice of the maternal fetal medicine specialists, I had an amniocentesis. Two weeks later the results came back: Two X chromosomes and no... (Continue reading)
This weekend, Glenn Beck and Sarah Palin are hosting a rally at the Lincoln Memorial. It’s going to be a gas — fake tears, dropped g’s, and thousands of sheep who don’t know the first thing about Washington. Thankfully, a Tea... (Continue reading)
Concern for my children’s social well-being (and, let’s face it, my own too) may be the primary reason I don’t speak more plainly about my atheism, but it’s certainly not the only reason. I also don’t want to lumped in... (Continue reading)
When I was in college, I was friends with both halves of an engaged couple. He was cheating on her, with people we knew and with people we didn’t. She suspected it, but never fully pursued her suspicions. I wrestled with... (Continue reading)
Many lessons were drilled into my head as a child. I remember “It’s all relative” and “MYOB” and “Elbows off the table!” quite well. But the one I probably heard most often was “Don’t jump to conclusions.” In retrospect, I ought... (Continue reading)
“I mean if I ever sat behind myself in a movie or something, I’d probably lean over and tell myself to shut up.” (J.D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye) I don’t talk in movies. But in conversation, I often... (Continue reading)
At Saturday’s swim meet, both my daughter and I found ourselves in uncomfortable conversations, reluctant to speak honestly. Hers involved religion; mine, both politics and religion. “What happened?” I asked her. “Jack asked me if I believed in God.” “What did you say?” “I... (Continue reading)
I don’t like soccer. Unlike almost every other kid from my town, I never once played on a soccer team. While our high school soccer games were nearly as popular as football games (and far more popular than basketball or baseball... (Continue reading)
It’s not easy being a parent to free range kids. Sure, it might seem easy – just let them go and trust that they’ll come back, like Crush and Squirt in “Finding Nemo” – but I’m still thinking about them, concerned... (Continue reading)
Memorial Day weekend: It’s the same every year; the outdoor pool opens, and my blood pressure jumps thirty points. Our family swims year round – swimming lessons, swim team, triathlon training, and just for fun. We’re the ones who buy swim-n-sport... (Continue reading)
A few months ago, I wrote about the Texas state board of education’s efforts to revise the science and social studies education standards. Last year, the conservative bloc lobbied for the teaching of creationism and intelligent design in science classes.... (Continue reading)
Oh, those Iranians. Ever since the Shah was booted over 30 years ago, the place has been a mess. From the hostage crisis to the Iran-Iraq War, and from Iran-Contra to their nuclear program, the United States has viewed Iran... (Continue reading)
I was in elementary school when the Valley Girl trend hit. Soon after, my speech was peppered with “like” and “awesome” and “omigod!” which annoyed my parents (especially overuse of “like”), but they managed to tolerate it. Once though, after I... (Continue reading)